Then let me give you some advice, as both a psychologist and as Edward's roommate for more than a few years: He will hardly regret what he has done, and he will certainly never come to you to apologize. Would you, in his place? Wouldn't you rationalize it, reason about it, until you could divulge yourself of all blame and end the cognitive dissonance over your actions? If he even believes he's in the wrong to begin with, he certainly won't after a while.
Perhaps, if you were a woman, things would be different. But, currently? It is my professional opinion that this rift will never heal. In fact, it may only get worse over time. [he is taking no pleasure in this. truly.]
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Date: 2011-09-24 04:46 am (UTC)Perhaps, if you were a woman, things would be different. But, currently? It is my professional opinion that this rift will never heal. In fact, it may only get worse over time. [he is taking no pleasure in this. truly.]